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Get the inside scoop about life at U-M and applying to Michigan from current student bloggers, Admissions staff, and guest faculty writers.
Get the inside scoop about life at U-M and applying to Michigan from current student bloggers, Admissions staff, and guest faculty writers.
It’s OK to take a break!
As new — and even returning — college students, it can be hard to give yourself permission to take a break without feeling guilty. You’ve worked so hard to get to the University of Michigan, and it’s natural to want to make the most of every opportunity. But here’s the truth: Burnout is real, and being constantly “on” isn’t sustainable. Finding balance doesn’t mean slacking off — it means giving yourself space to rest, recharge, and connect so you can show up as your best self both inside and outside the classroom.
Your class schedule might be set, but how you organize the rest of your week is totally up to you. Tools like Google Calendar or Notion are lifesavers for blocking off time for studying, clubs, and social plans. When you plan intentionally, you can enjoy downtime without the guilt of unfinished work hanging over you. Treat your breaks like appointments — a nonnegotiable part of your success. Maybe that means a coffee run to Comet Coffee, a walk through the Diag, or a chill evening catching up with friends. Whatever helps you recharge, make time for it.
One of the best parts of being at Michigan is how easy it is to blend social time with productivity. Study groups make tough classes more manageable and more fun. Whether you’re working at the UgLi, Ross, M36 Coffee Roasters, or the Michigan Union, surrounding yourself with motivated friends can help you stay on track while still feeling connected. You’ll reinforce what you’re learning, share ideas, and maybe even make a few core college memories along the way.
Planning ahead is key to staying balanced. Try front-loading your hardest assignments early in the week, that way, you can relax a little when the weekend rolls around. When you’ve already put in the effort, you can go out to dinner, attend a club event, or cheer on the Wolverines at a game without that lingering feeling of guilt. This same mindset works for everything from workouts to student orgs: Scheduling your time helps keep you consistent while still leaving space for spontaneity.
It’s completely OK to skip a night out if you need time to rest. FOMO (fear of missing out) is real, especially on a campus as lively as Michigan’s, but remember — there will always be another game, another event, another hangout. Listen to your body and give yourself permission to stay in when you need to. The key to avoiding burnout is knowing your limits. Recharging isn’t falling behind; it’s investing in your long-term wellbeing.
At the University of Michigan, balance isn’t about choosing between academics and a social life — it’s about learning how to thrive in both. The key is to be intentional: Plan your time, prioritize your rest, and make space for the people and experiences that energize you. College isn’t just about getting good grades; it’s also about growing, connecting, and creating memories that shape who you are. When you let yourself rest and have fun, you’ll find that you’re not just surviving at Michigan — you’re truly thriving.
Mari Reyes-Toidze is a Stamps sophomore hoping to pursue a bachelors degree in both arts and architecture. She is from the city of Philadelphia and is a huge Eagles fan. She is part of the Michigan Club Swim Team and is on the membership team for her sorority, Gamma Phi Beta. She is also a campus manager for the company UTees. In her free time she enjoys reading, painting, and swimming.