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Fall is the busiest time of year for a senior in high school. Students are writing essays, consulting guidance counselors, and reviewing and submitting college applications. It is both the best and worst of times. Everyone wants to be present and enjoy their last year with friends and family, but they often find themselves fantasizing about the fast-approaching future. It seems as though life has yet to begin, and the future holds nothing but endless possibilities. In just a few months, this excitement quickly turns into anxiety as students decide where to spend their next four years, and this distant, dreamlike future becomes the present.

I remember my senior year of high school like it was yesterday, and I also remember all the lessons I learned while transitioning into college life. As both a first-generation and out-of-state college student, I had no idea what to expect. Not only was I in a new academic environment, but I was also in a completely different state. Born and raised in Orlando, Florida, I had quite the adjustment moving to the Midwest, to say the least. In addition to a drastic change in the weather, I met all kinds of people who were completely different from those I knew back home.

My advice to any incoming first-years would be to find your community on campus. Joining clubs and participating in extracurriculars at a large university can make a big difference in building a sense of community and belonging. In this environment, it’s easy to feel like just another face in the crowd, but clubs provide smaller, more personal spaces where people with shared interests can connect. By finding community within student organizations, whether for academics, sports, volunteer work, or hobbies, you can gain support that will better your experience.

Another great way to build those connections specifically as a dependent of a veteran is by attending events held by Peer Advisors for Veteran Education (PAVE). These events are specifically designed to support new students as they transition into college life. Whether you’re looking to meet new friends, learn about campus resources, or get advice from upperclassmen, PAVE’s events offer a welcoming space to do so. You’ll find students who have been through the same experiences, ready to share tips and answer any questions. 

The most important takeaway is to make finding your community a priority, whether that’s through clubs, sports, or academics. Connecting with others who share your interests can make campus feel smaller and more like home. If you’re a veteran-dependent or military-connected student, don't miss out on PAVE events; they’re a fantastic way to meet people who can relate to your background and offer support. Ultimately, finding your people and building a network will be a huge part of shaping a college experience you’ll love.

Guest blog author: Mackenzie Gladney is a LSA sophomore majoring in communications and media. She is from Orlando, Florida and loves theme parks and the beach. She is a part of the Michigan All-Girl Club Cheer Team, where she’s found a supportive community and a great way to stay active. She is also a PAVE peer advisor and loves to help incoming students transition into university life socially and academically. In her free time, she enjoys writing, swimming, and watching movies.